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- Note! There are two Larry Dean Drollingers born within a couple yearsof one another! What are the odds of that?!
(David H. Drollinger 25 Aug 2007)
I called and spoke to Larry Dean Drollinger for the first time bytelephone on 8 Jan 2008. We had a pretty good visit. I called him athis work number, (714) 279-8091 which I found listed in whitpages.com. After I explained who I was and why I was calling he was more relaxedabout sharing his personal information with me. We have both been inthe construction business for most of our lives. He said he has owneda business or two. He is in commercial construction doing remodelwork. He said his middle name is Dean and that he was born 28 Dec1941 in Compton, CA. I told him about the other Larry Dean Drollingerof almost the same age even living in Idaho which surprised him.Larry confided in me that his father had abandoned him and his motherbefore he was born. He said that he thinks his father's name wasGerald Drollinger. Apparently his mother who is now deceased neverspoke of his father or his father's side of the family. He said he isan only child. His mother's name is Mildred Boyce and she had nomiddle name and she was born in Rexford, KS and died May 1995. Larryconfirmed that he was married to the late Margaret Lois Erikson. Hesaid she was quick to correct anyone who tried to add a "c" to hersurname! They adopted a girl, his only child, Marla Dee Drollinger.He said she either had been married or was still married (I wasn'tquite clear about that) and that he was living with her because ofhealth reasons. I'm assuming her health, since Larry is obviouslyable to work. Just for the record, I asked if Larry was the father oftwo boys named Cy and Lon and he seemed to have no idea who they were. Therefore, perhaps they must be the sons of the other LarryDrollinger I have found living in CA. We said goodbye and agreed tokeep in touch. Larry gave me his cell phone number: (714) 773-1149.
(David H. Drollinger 10 Jan 2008)
http://www.whitepages.com/search "Larry Drollinger, CA"
Larry Drollinger
work
1588 N Batavia St, Ste 2
Orange, CA 92867-3542
(714) 279-8091
(David H. Drollinger 10 Jan 2008)
Larry's email address: larry@kinneyco.com (as of 2008)
From: Dave Drollinger [mailto:ddrollinger@gmail.com]
Sent: Tuesday, January 08, 2008 11:34 AM
To: Larry D. Drollinger
Subject: Larry Dean Drollinger / Dave Drollinger
Hi again Larry!
And thanks again for taking the time to speak with me this morning!It was good getting to know you a little better. I always likemeeting another distant cousin. And, I always like adding one morepiece to the puzzle, so I won't be satisfied until I have you properlyattached to our growing Drollinger Family Tree where you rightfullybelong. The information you gave me, although sparse, will help me inthat endeavor. If there is anything else that you can think of thatyou think will help me I would sure appreciate it. My contact info isbelow.
As promised, I'm enclosing the web address to our (it's actuallylisted in Gordon Drollinger's name, my "genealogist, partner in crime";-) Drollinger Family Tree website (see below). Hope you find itinteresting. Please, don't be afraid to contact me at anytime. I'malways happy to speak to anyone about our Drollinger roots! I'manxious to have us ALL pieced together! This info will always beavailable for free to everyone for generations to come so that theywill know about their Drollinger heritage!
While doing some quick studying after I hung up from you, I noticedthat, as I had indicated to you on the phone, not only did I have youincorrectly listed as a son of George Ellwood Drollinger (as you say),but I also had a possible "sister" (possible daughter of GeorgeEllwood Drollinger) listed with you as well by the name of Mildred L.Drollinger. Here's the real interesting part - according to thegenealogy website, Ancestry.com that I was telling you about, itindicates that she was born in Los Angeles County on 18 Oct 1944 andher mother's maiden name was Boyce! Here is a copy of the exactcitation:
http://search.ancestry.com
California Birth Index, 1905-1995
about Mildred Drollinger
Name: Mildred Drollinger
Birth Date: 18 Oct 1944
Gender: Female
Mother's Maiden Name: Boyce
Birth County: Los Angeles
Here's what I find very curious about all this: You told me today thatyou didn't have any brothers or sisters; however, what are the oddsthat there would be another Drollinger family in the Los Angeles areain the early/mid 1940s whose wife has the maiden name "Boyce"? And inthis case, they name their daughter "Mildred L." the same name youtold me was your mother's first name. And she was born in 1944 justthree years after you were born. That's a lot of coincidences!
I see according to Peoplefinders.com search for "Mildred L.Drollinger" "all states" she is apparently living in Galt, CA.
And you really never have heard of her before now? I find itdifficult to believe that she isn't your sister, unless there is somemistake that I am not aware of. This is a mystery! Do you supposethere is any chance your mother and father could have had anotherchild (Mildred L. in this case) without you knowing about it?Whatever the truth is, I am NOT out to condemn anyone!!! That'scertainly NOT what I'm about or other genealogists that I'm aware are. We all have our "histories" that we wish we could erase parts of.But, as far as knowing how each of us got here, we believe we alldeserve that basic right to know that heritage - right, wrong orindifferent. And so, that's the way I approach what I do. I simplywant to know how I am related to you and I really don't care if therewere shenanigans in either branch that lead to you or me.
Well, I hope I didn't give you any upsetting information. My onlyintention is to help, not hurt.
I sure look forward to hearing back from you. Especially aboutwhether or not Mildred really is a sister of yours or not and who yourgrandfather Drollinger was.
Best Wishes!
Cuz'n Dave
David Howard Drollinger (born 5 May 1951 Fairchild AFB; Spokane, WA)
2917 W. 19th Ave #46
Kennewick, WA 99337
(509) 582-9000 (Home)
(509) 531-1122 (Cell)
ddrollinger@gmail.com
(end of email)
On Jan 8, 2008 12:33 PM, Larry D. Drollinger wrote:
Hi back to you!
Yes I too find this very interesting. My mother was always one to keepthe family in close contact, at least hers. When I was old enough tounderstand why didn?t have a father at home, she did say she was verysorry she had not kept in touch with my fathers family. My birth toremy mother up quite badly when I was born, which was at home and not ina hospital. So I really don?t think I have a sister by my mother. Whatmy father did after he left is totally unknown.
(end of email)
According to the California Birth Index, it lists Larry's mother'smaiden name as "Boyce". Could Boyce be Mary Belle's maiden name or isshe another wife of George?
http://search.ancestry.com
California Birth Index, 1905-1995
about Larry Dean Drollinger
Name: Larry Dean Drollinger
Birth Date: 28 Dec 1941
Gender: Male
Mother's Maiden Name: Boyce
Birth County: Los Angeles
http://www.peoplefinders.com/search for "Larry D. Drollinger"
DROLLINGER, LARRY D (Age 65)
SANTA ANA, CA
ORANGE, CA
GARDEN GROVE, CA
WESTMINSTER, CA
Possible Relatives:
DROLLINGER, MARLA D (Age 57)
Possible Roommates / Associates:
ENCISO, VICTOR M (Age 42)
http://www.peoplefinders.com/search for "Marla D. Drollinger"
DROLLINGER, MARLA D (Age 56)
Associated names:
SCHLEPER, MARLA D
SANTA ANA, CA
ORANGE, CA
ANAHEIM, CA
FULLERTON, CA
Possible Relatives:
SCHLEPER, CHAD A (Age 33)
SCHLEPER, SHAWN E (Age 37)
SCHLEPER, CHARLENE M
DROLLINGER, LARRY D (Age 66)
(Now that I know that Marla is the adopted daughter of Larry and thatshe was born in 1972 and that she was married, I now believe thatShawn is her probable husband due to his age)
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