Nelia Ivory Berniece "Bernice" Slate

Female 1907 - 1986  (79 years)


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  • Name Nelia Ivory Berniece "Bernice" Slate 
    Birth 19 Feb 1907  Ava, Douglas, MO Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • On my mother's application for passport from America to England in 1951, she identifies her mother as "Mrs. Bernice Henley, born at Ava, Missouri on or about 19 Feb 1907 and currently living in Sunnyside, Washington. (David H. Drollinger 11 Dec 2020)
    Gender Female 
    Death 20 Aug 1986  Spokane, Spokane, WA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • Grandma passed away at Southcrest Nursing Care at 110 W. Cliff Drive, Spokane, WA where she had been residing for a while. (David H. Drollinger 28 Feb 2021)

      BERNICE HENLEY
      . A former Sunnyside resident, Bernice Henley, of Spokane, died Wednesday morning, Aug 20.
      . She is survived by one son, Paul R. Henley, of Spokane; one daughter, Reta LaVerne Nelson, of Redmond; nine grandchildren and six great-grandchildren. She is also survived by a brother, Leslie Slate, of Yakima, and two sisters, Ruby Davis, of Huntington Beach, CA., and Goldie Krider, of Mountain Grove, MO.
      . Graveside services were conducted Friday, Aug. 22, at 1 pm, in the Greenwood Memorial Terrace by Ball and Dod Funeral Directors.
      . Memorials are suggested to the Inland Empire Diabetic Association and may be sent to Ball and Dod Funeral Home, So. 421 Division St., Spokane.
      Sunnyside Daily News (Sunnyside, Washington) - 22 Aug 1986, Friday - pg. 8

      HENLEY, Bernice
      Spokane Chronicle (Spokane, Washington) 21 Aug 1986, Thu Page 33 FUNERALS

      Newspapers.com Obituary Index
      Name: Bernice Henley
      Gender: Female
      Death Date: 20 Aug 1986
      Burial Date: 22 Aug 1986
      Obituary Date: 21 Aug 1986
      Obituary Place: Spokane, Washington, United States of America
      Child: Paul R. Henley
      Rota La Verne Nelson
      Siblings: Leslie Slat.
      Ruby Davis
      Goldin K Rider

      Bernice Henley Dies In Washington
      The Douglas County Herald (Ava, Missouri)11 Sep 1986, Thu Page 3 DEATHS

      Washington, U.S., Death Index
      Name: Bernice Henley
      Gender: Female
      Age: 79
      Birth Year: abt 1907
      Residence Place: Spokane City, Washington, USA
      Death Date: 20 Aug 1986
      Death Place: Spokane, Washington
      Social Security Number: 537-26-7152
      Certificate Number: 021175
    Burial Spokane, Spokane, WA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • Fairmount Heritage, Inc. cemetery and funeral home, Greenwood Memorial Terrace, Space 4 Lot/Section 907 Lawn/Unit Hope.

      I designed Grandma's headstone and still have the original artwork in my possession. Following Grandma's death, I asked Mom and Uncle Paul if they would mind if I designed her headstone. They said that would be welcomed. After they approved the design the headstone was made and placed upon her grave. I have always felt privileged for this honor. (David H. Drollinger 23 Sep 2011)
    Person ID I13967  Drollinger Genealogy
    Last Modified 27 Mar 2023 

    Father John William Slate,   b. 25 Sep 1868, Champion Twp, Douglas County, MO Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 25 Dec 1948, Wintersburg, Orange, CA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 80 years) 
    Mother Cornelia Callie "Nelia" Tefteller,   b. 14 Oct 1874, Loudon, Loudon, TN Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 13 Mar 1959, Wintersburg, Orange, CA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 84 years) 
    Family ID F5356  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 Arnder Robert Paul Henley, Sr.,   b. 27 Jan 1907, Ava, Douglas, MO Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 29 Apr 1963, Kennewick, Benton, WA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 56 years) 
    Marriage 30 May 1927  Ava, Douglas, MO Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • Her marriage to Paul Henley dated 30 May 1927 in my grandmother's handwriting in an old hard bound book titled, Bible Birthday Book (A publication of Henry Altemus Company)(page 155 and written again among the last blank pages) with her signature (Berniece Slate [sic]) written in pencil inside first page and in my possession. David Howard Drollinger 20 Nov 2019
    Children 
     1. Paul Robert Henley, Jr.,   b. 30 Sep 1928, Ava, Douglas, MO Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 28 Aug 2007, Sun City West, Maricopa, AZ Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 78 years)
     2. Reta La Verne Henley,   b. 17 Feb 1930, Ava, Douglas, MO Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 4 May 2010, Richland, Benton, WA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 80 years)
    Documents
    Marriage License Newspaper Notice
    Marriage License Newspaper Notice
    The Douglas County Herald
    Ava, Missouri · Thursday, June 02, 1927
    Family ID F4585  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 28 Mar 2023 

    Family 2 Buell Charles Shepherd,   b. 5 Oct 1905, Wilkes County, NC Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 14 Oct 1965, Santa Clara, Santa Clara, CA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 60 years) 
    Marriage 6 Feb 1959  Sunnyside, Yakima, WA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Documents
    Newspaper wedding announcement
    Newspaper wedding announcement
    Daily Sun-News (Sunnyside, Washington) 19 Feb 1959, Thu Page 12
    Family ID F16911  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 17 Mar 2022 

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBirth - 19 Feb 1907 - Ava, Douglas, MO Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarriage - 30 May 1927 - Ava, Douglas, MO Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarriage - 6 Feb 1959 - Sunnyside, Yakima, WA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDeath - 20 Aug 1986 - Spokane, Spokane, WA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBurial - - Spokane, Spokane, WA Link to Google Earth
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  • Photos
    1925 yearbook photo - Bernice is seated directly in front of the standing second man from the left
    1925 yearbook photo - Bernice is seated directly in front of the standing second man from the left
    Ava High School
    Ava, Missouri, USA

    Documents
    Marriage Record
    Marriage Record
    Obituary of Bernice Henley
    Obituary of Bernice Henley
    The Douglas County Herald (Ava, Missouri) 11 Sep 1986, Thu Page 3
    Obituary of Bernice Henley
    Obituary of Bernice Henley
    Obituary of Bernice Henley
    Obituary of Bernice Henley
    Sunnyside Daily News
    Sunnyside, Washington · Friday, August 22, 1986

    1910 Census

    1920 Census

    1940 Census

    1950 Census

    Headstones


  • Notes 
    • According to my mother, her mother hated her name and from an early age chose to go by 'Bernice' including the simplified spelling of it (Bernice vs Berniece). David H. Drollinger 29 Nov 2019

      Ref the record of Miriam, her daughter-in-law, for more information.

      The following information is per the DELAYED OR SPECIAL CERTIFICATE OF BIRTH No. 444205 of THE DIVISION OF HEALTH OF MISSOURI, Bureau of Vital Statistics, FILED in the Division of Health, Jefferson City, Missouri, on "Sep 24 1956" (certified) "Sept. 25, 1956":
      Full Name at Birth: "Nelia Ivory Berniece Slate"
      Date of Birth: "2-19-1907" (19 Feb 2017)
      Color or Race: "White"
      Sex: "F"
      Birthplace: (City or Town) "Ava" (County) "Douglas" (State) "Missouri"
      Father: Full Name: "John William Slate"
      (Father's) Birthplace: "Douglas County, Mo."
      Mother: Full Name: "Callia Cornelia Tefteller"
      (Mother's) Birthplace: Louden County, Tenn."
      Affidavit: I hereby declare upon oath that the above statements are true.
      Registrant's own signature: "Bernice Henley" (Note: her signature is somewhat obscure, but appears to be close to Bernice Henley, which was her married surname at the time. She also went by "Bernice" vs "Berniece" which she did not like. She also did not like Nelia or Ivory and never went by those names probably from the time she was a little girl.)
      Formerly Nelia Ivory Berniece Slate
      Address: "1405 Jackson Street, Sunnyside, Washington"
      Subscribed and sworn to me on "August 17th 1956"
      Notory Public: (illegible signature)
      ABSTRACT OF SUPPORTING EVIDENCE
      NAME AND KIND OF DOCUMENT (INCLUDING BY WHOM ISSUED AND SIGNED, AND DATE OF ISSUE)
      1) "Family Bible Record" (Date Original Document Was Made) "Years Ago"
      2) "Douglas Co. Mo. Public School record" (Date Original Document Was Made) "1923-24"
      3) "Affidavit of Callia C. Slate, Mother" (Date Original Document Was Made) "8-26-56" (26 Aug 1956)
      (Note: The above information represents a partial excerpt. However, it is representative of the majority of information and the important and relevant aspects. It is in the form a photocopy that I believe my mother gave to me some time ago. In a space above the document printed from a typewriter are the following words: "Note: LaVerne here is some additional information mom had given me: Her mother's family, the Teftellers were originally from England. Her mother Cornellia Teftteller, went by the nickname of "Nelia".
      Her father's parents were Henry (?) Slate who married Sarah Roads. She believed them to be from Kentucky originally but they were married in Mansfield, Missouri. They had five children, Albert, Molly, Jim, Tom and John W. (your grandfather)". I believe these words were typed by LaVerne's sister-in-law, Sue Henley who was married to LaVerne's brother, Paul Henley.
      (The above document is in my possession and currently filed in a manila file folder titled, "Mom" (my mother, Reta LaVerne Henley). David H. Drollinger 27 Sep 2011

      After moving from their home in Eva, Missouri, Grandpa and Grandma and Paul and LaVerne all moved to Washington. I believe they first moved to Bremerton where Grandpa worked as a ship builder in some capacity. From there I believe they all moved to Selah, WA finally settling in Sunnyside, WA not far away. As of this date (27 Mar 2023) I am not yet certain of the addresses they lived at and exactly what time frames for each.

      Grandma lived in her house at 1405 Jackson Street, Sunnyside, WA for many years in the 1950s and 1960s.

      Grandma eventually sold her little home on Jackson Street in Sunnyside and moved to a home in Gresham, OR to live near her daughter, LaVerne (my mother). I have been trying to find out what her address was there and exactly the dates she lived there. She left this home to move to her new home at East 11 40th, Spokane, WA due to LaVerne getting married to Rope Nelson who lived in Kona, Hawaii and where she moved to in 1974. Grandma moved to Spokane to live near her son, Paul.

      Grandma lived in her house at East 11 40th, Spokane, WA for a few years in the 1970s. She lived there before moving to her apartment at E. 1204 30th a short distance away when she was no longer able to care for her house and to live even nearer to her son, Paul, who lived nearby on Manito Blvd. where he could keep an even closer eye on her. It was about this time that she lost her lower leg - just below her knee - to the ravages of diabetes that she fought for many years.

      Grandma was living at E. 1204 30th Apt 38, Spokane, WA 99203 in 1981.

      When Grandma was no longer able to care for herself at her 30th Ave apartment she moved into an assisted living/nursing home (Southcrest Nursing Care at 110 W. Cliff Drive, Spokane, WA) not far away where she later passed away.

      The information regarding Grandma's various residences was provided by me, her grandson, David Drollinger on 27 Mar 2023.


      1910 United States Federal Census
      Name: Ivory V Slate
      [Nelia Ivory Berniece "Bernice" Slate]
      Age in 1910: 3
      Birth Date: 1907
      [1907]
      Birthplace: Missouri
      Home in 1910: Mcmurtrey, Douglas, Missouri, USA
      Race: White
      Gender: Female
      Relation to Head of House: Daughter
      Marital Status: Single
      Father's Name: John W Slate
      Father's Birthplace: Missouri
      Mother's Name: Cornelia C Slate
      Mother's Birthplace: Tennessee
      Neighbors: View others on page
      Household Members (Name) Age Relationship
      John W Slate 41 Head
      Cornelia C Slate 35 Wife
      Ova J Slate 16 Son
      Earl Slate 14 Son
      Noble V Slate 13 Son
      Clifford Slate 11 Son
      Mable N Slate 8 Daughter
      William C Slate 5 Son
      Ivory V Slate 3 Daughter
      Golda A Slate 1 Daughter

      1920 United States Federal Census
      Name: Bernice I Slate
      [Nelia Ivory Berniece "Bernice" Slate]
      Age: 13
      Birth Year: abt 1907
      Birthplace: Missouri
      Home in 1920: McMurtrey, Douglas, Missouri
      Residence Date: 1920
      Race: White
      Gender: Female
      Relation to Head of House: Daughter
      Marital Status: Single
      Father's Name: John W Slate
      Father's Birthplace: Missouri
      Mother's Name: Cornelia Slate
      Mother's Birthplace: Tennessee
      Able to Speak English: Yes
      Attended School: yes
      Able to read: Yes
      Able to Write: Yes
      Neighbors: View others on page
      Household Members (Name) Age Relationship
      John W Slate 52 Head
      Cornelia Slate 46 Wife
      Clifford Slate 20 Son
      Netus W Morris 18 Daughter
      Claude W Slate 15 Son
      Bernice I Slate 13 Daughter
      Goldie A Slate 11 Daughter
      Ruby M Slate 8 Daughter
      Chester M Slate 6 Son
      Lelsie H Slate 3 Son
      Russel P Morris 0 Grandson

      1940 United States Federal Census
      Name: Bernice Henley
      [Nelia Ivory Berniece "Bernice" Slate]
      Respondent: Yes
      Age: 33
      Estimated Birth Year: abt 1907
      Gender: Female
      Race: White
      Birthplace: Missouri
      Marital Status: Married
      Relation to Head of House: Wife
      Home in 1940: Selah Rural, Yakima, Washington
      Map of Home in 1940: Selah Rural, Yakima, Washington
      Inferred Residence in 1935: Rural, Yakima, Washington
      Residence in 1935: Rural, Yakima, Washington
      Resident on farm in 1935: Yes
      Sheet Number: 13A
      Attended School or College: No
      Highest Grade Completed: High School, 4th year
      Weeks Worked in 1939: 0
      Income: 0
      Income Other Sources: No
      Neighbors: View others on page
      Household Members (Name) Age Relationship
      Paul Henley 33 Head
      Bernice Henley 33 Wife
      Paul Henley Jr 11 Son
      Laverne Henley 10 Daughter

      1950 United States Federal Census
      [Nelia Ivory Berniece "Bernice" Slate]
      Name: Bernice Henly
      Age: 43
      Birth Date: abt 1907
      Gender: Female
      Race: White
      Birth Place: Missouri
      Marital Status: Married
      Relation to Head of House: Wife
      Residence Date: 1950
      Home in 1950: Yakima, Washington, USA
      Street Name: Dead End Road
      Dwelling Number: 169
      Farm: No
      Acres: No
      Occupation Category: Keeping House
      Worked Last Week: No
      Seeking Work: No
      Employment Status: No
      Household Members (Name) Age Relationship
      Paul Henly 43 Head
      Bernice Henly 43 Wife