Paul Robert Henley, Jr.

Paul Robert Henley, Jr.

Male 1928 - 2007  (78 years)

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  • Name Paul Robert Henley 
    Suffix Jr. 
    Birth 30 Sep 1928  Ava, Douglas, MO Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Gender Male 
    Death 28 Aug 2007  Sun City West, Maricopa, AZ Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • SpokesmanReview.com
      Sunday, September 2, 2007
      HENLEY, Paul R.
      Born September 30, 1928 in Ava MO, currently residing in Sun City West, AZ, formerly of Spokane, WA passed away Tuesday, August 28th at his home after a courageous battle with cancer. Left to cherish his memory is his devoted wife, Susan; four children, Michael (Theresa Carnavale), Kent, WA, Mark, Gig Harbor, WA, Dr. David , Burien, WA and Kathy Milne (Scott) Palmyra, PA, and two stepchildren, Robert, Henderson, NV and Cheryl, Stanwood, WA., 10 grandchildren and two stepgrandchildren. He also leaves one sister, LaVerne Nelson of Kennewick,WA, as well as other relatives and many friends. He earned his BA in Education from Central WA College of Education and his Masters Degree from Whitworth College. Paul served in the US Marine Corps from 1952-1954. He served in School District 81 as an educator and coach for 30 years holding the positions of Basketball Coach and Athletic Director at Shadle Park High School from 1959-1968. He also was Central Administration Student Activities Coordinator K-12, 1973-1982 and a member of the National Federation Basketball Rules Committee from 1977-1979. He was awarded the state's "Athletic Director of the Year" in 1979, retiring from School District 81 in 1982. He was inducted into the WSSAAA Hall of Fame in 1993. After retiring from School District 81 Paul worked 19 years as a Registered Representative for Interpacific Investors' Services, Inc. The family asks that memorial donations be made to Hospice of the Valley, 1510 E Flower Street, Phoenix, AZ 85014 or charity of donor's choice. At his request there will be no services. His family is planning to celebrate his life at a later date.

      THE SPOKESMAN-REVIEW Thursday, April 8, 1993 Page C2
      [headline] Colville's Clark finally turns in his coaching reins
      Hall of Fame: Carl Schultz and Paul Henley are among four 1993 inductees to the Washington Secondary Schools Athletic Administration Hall of Fame.
      Henley served 32 years in the Spokane School District, including 23 as athletic director at Shadle Park. He coached basketball there from 1957-66, compiling a 102-66 record. He retired from education in 1982.

      Paul passed away due to the ongoing complications and progression of his long-term battle with prostrate cancer which eventually spread.
      (Per David H. Drollinger [his nephew] 6 Jun 2008)
    Burial Spokane, Spokane, WA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • BURIAL Greenwood Memorial Terrace
      PLOT Hope Lawn
      Spokane, Spokane County, Washington, USA

      Paul is buried next to his mother
    Person ID I13968  Drollinger Genealogy
    Last Modified 3 Apr 2023 

    Father Arnder Robert Paul Henley, Sr.,   b. 27 Jan 1907, Ava, Douglas, MO Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 29 Apr 1963, Kennewick, Benton, WA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 56 years) 
    Mother Nelia Ivory Berniece "Bernice" Slate,   b. 19 Feb 1907, Ava, Douglas, MO Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 20 Aug 1986, Spokane, Spokane, WA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 79 years) 
    Family ID F4585  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

    Family 1 Miriam Joy "Mae" "Mim" Asselstine,   b. 18 Feb 1929, Sunnyside, Yakima, WA Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 2 Apr 2023, Auburn, King, WA Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 94 years) 
    Marriage 26 Jan 1951  Sunnyside, Yakima, WA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • Washington, U.S., Marriage Records
      Name: Paul R. Henley Jr
      Gender: Male
      Marriage Date: 26 Jan 1951
      Marriage Place: Sunnyside, Washington, USA
      Spouse: Miriam J. Asselstine
    Divorce 8 Dec 1971  Spokane, Spokane, WA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    • Washington, U.S., Divorce Index
      Name: Paul R Henley
      Gender: Male
      Divorce Date: 8 Dec 1971
      Divorce Place: Spokane, Washington, USA
      Spouse: Miriam Henley
      Number of Children: 4
      Notes: Husband filed
    Children 
     1. Kathy Jo Henley
    +2. Michael Robert Henley
     3. Mark Alan Henley
     4. David Scott Henley
    Documents
    Marriage Record
    Marriage Record
    Wedding Announcement
    Wedding Announcement
    Daily Sun-News
    Sunnyside, Washington · Thursday, February 01, 1951
    Family ID F4586  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 27 Mar 2023 

    Family 2 Susan Burdeen "Sue" "Susie" Nelson,   b. 25 Aug 1942, Spokane County, WA Find all individuals with events at this location 
    Marriage 27 Dec 1971 
    Children 
     1. Robert Vincent "Rob" Henley
     2. Cheryl Loreen "Cher" Henley
    Family ID F4588  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 14 Mar 2016 

  • Event Map
    Link to Google MapsBirth - 30 Sep 1928 - Ava, Douglas, MO Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsMarriage - 26 Jan 1951 - Sunnyside, Yakima, WA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDivorce - 8 Dec 1971 - Spokane, Spokane, WA Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsDeath - 28 Aug 2007 - Sun City West, Maricopa, AZ Link to Google Earth
    Link to Google MapsBurial - - Spokane, Spokane, WA Link to Google Earth
     = Link to Google Earth 

  • Photos
    1949 yearbook (track team photo; Paul is actually the 5th person to the right in row 2)
    1949 yearbook (track team photo; Paul is actually the 5th person to the right in row 2)
    Central Washington College of Education
    Ellensburg, Washington
    1946 Senior Year Photo
    1946 Senior Year Photo
    Sunnyside High School
    Sunnyside, Washington
    1949 Yearbook Photo (Hyakem Yearbook)
    1949 Yearbook Photo (Hyakem Yearbook)
    Central Washington University
    Ellensburg, Washington, USA
    1949 Yearbook. Central Washington University - 
Ellensburg, Washington, USA
    1949 Yearbook. Central Washington University - Ellensburg, Washington, USA
    Ref photo in lower left corner of page. Paul is wearing a tie and standing in the middle of the photo. His girlfriend and future wife, Miriam, is standing next to him on his right.
    1949 Yearbook, Central Washington University - 
Ellensburg, Washington, USA
    1949 Yearbook, Central Washington University - Ellensburg, Washington, USA
    Paul is actually the fifth from the left in Row 2.
    1959 Yearbook (Faculty Photo)
    1959 Yearbook (Faculty Photo)
    Shadle Park High School
    Spokane, Washington, USA

    Documents
    WWII DRC
    WWII DRC
    WWII DRC
    WWII DRC

    1950 Census
    Obituary of Paul Robert Henley Jr.
    Obituary of Paul Robert Henley Jr.
    The Spokesman-Review
    Spokane, Washington · Sunday, September 02, 2007
    Obituary of Paul Robert Henley Jr.
    Obituary of Paul Robert Henley Jr.
    The Douglas County Herald
    Ava, Missouri · Thursday, October 04, 2007
    1946 Yearbook (Paul is in the upper photo. Also note his future wife, Miriam Asselstine, in the lower photo)
    1946 Yearbook (Paul is in the upper photo. Also note his future wife, Miriam Asselstine, in the lower photo)
    Sunnyside High School
    Sunnyside, Washington, USA

    Headstones


  • Notes 
    • U.S., Public Records Index
      Name: Paul R Henley
      Birth Date: 30 Sep 1928
      Residence Date: 1993
      Address: 2804 S Manito Blvd
      Residence: Spokane, WA
      Postal Code: 99203-2543

      U.S., City Directories
      Name: Paul R Henley
      Gender: Male
      Residence Year: 1955
      Street Address: W1727 Grace
      Residence Place: Spokane, Washington, USA
      Occupation: Teacher
      Spouse:
      Miriam J Henley
      Publication Title: Spokane, Washington, City Directory, 1955

      In 1949 Paul was attending college at Central Washington College of Education as it was known then. In 1950 (ref 1950 Census) he was living in Munson Hall Dormitory at Central Washington College of Education.

      U.S., School Yearbooks,
      Name: Paul Henly
      Estimated Age: Abt 20
      Birth Year: abt 1929
      Yearbook Date: 1949
      School: Central Washington University
      School Location: Ellensburg, Washington, USA
      Yearbook Title: Hyakem Yearbook

      1950 United States Federal Census
      Name: Paul R Henley
      Age: 21
      Birth Date: abt 1929
      Gender: Male
      Race: White
      Birth Place: Missouri
      Marital Status: Never Married (Single)
      Relation to Head of House: Lodger
      Residence Date: 1950
      Home in 1950: Ellensburg, Kittitas, Washington, USA
      Street Name: North Walnut Street
      Dwelling Number: od
      Farm: No
      Acres: No
      Occupation Category: Other
      Worked Last Week: No
      Seeking Work: No
      Employment Status: No
      Household Members (Name) Age Relationship
      Julia Alice Prater 66 Head
      Conrad R Mather 23 Lodger
      Donald E Fenton 20 Lodger
      Thomas A Millar 20 Lodger
      Robert E Mattielli 25 Lodger
      Louis E Shandera 25 Lodger
      Hugh J Slaughter 28 Lodger
      Alvin E Moffat 24 Lodger
      Venon D Anderson 20 Lodger
      Nils I Isakson 25 Lodger